A Bit of a Rant

Let me just say this. I do not typically rant about much of anything. But I have a few things I would like to throw out there for you to think about.

Last week my wife and I were in Tulsa, OK. We don't spend a lot of time there and just to be honest it is not my favorite place to visit. As we were trying to get back to Oklahoma City we got caught up in a detour and took us on a wild goose chase. It reminded me of why it is not my favorite place to visit. Although Tulsa is the place where two of my favorite people in the world reside, Matt and Lindsay Nelson. If you are in the area and are looking for a church you should check them out @ http://citychurchtulsa.com/.

Question: Which city in America has the best roads?

Also, why is it that as humans we are so full of excuses? In a past blog I talked a lot about personal ownership. Excuses are the exact opposite.

Challenge: Take responsibility for something that may or may not have been your fault this week. This is a great way to learn personal ownership.

Remember, Jesus took personal ownership over all of your mistakes and he didn't even say "but I didn't do it, she did".

Personal Ownership

You are who you are because you are who you are! As I am typing this statement it seems very awkward. But the reality is that it is so true. So many times in life we try to blame our failures and short comings on others by pointing the finger and having someone to be angry with. One of the biggest life lessons God has taught me is personal ownership. Take ownership for your faults, weaknesses and failures.

The next time you are upset with someone, stop and consider what part you played in the situation.

Give me some feedback.

Resilience Again

As you know I am a huge baseball fan and even a bigger follower of Christ. In some of my past blogs I have written about the importance and necessity in life for resilience. That is, if you ever really want to amount to anything it is very important. Because the bottom line in life is that we are going to fail, have hard times and struggles. The measure of greatness is the ability to bounce back or be resilient.

I was proud of the Rangers tonight. Last night they took a crushing blow from a team they have proven they can beat, as a matter of fact they lost the game needing only one strike for the victory. The Red Sox made an incredible come back and stole the game from them as sometimes happens in baseball. For a moment the season seemed to be over. But after the game Michael Young (third baseman) was asked "is it hard to bounce back from a game like this?", he responds "no, it's easy". It's easy because Michael knows what it means to be resilient. That when you get knocked down the only option you have is to get back up. Tonight they showed the ability to not struggle in defeat will set you in motion for victory. And of course they were triumphant!

So next time you fall down, get up! Use that God given ability to bounce back in even the most extreme disappointment. Be Resilient!

Stop the Madness!

Can someone please stop the madness? Who would have ever thought going to wal-mart to pick up school supplies for your kiddos could be so crazy. It seemed as though every item we needed was sold out. I guess it really does pay to go early. I never dreamed I would be so desperate to find jumbo glue sticks and 8 pack wide markers. Thank God we found all that we need and only have to make one more short trip to finish things up. Ultimately, the only thing that really matters is that we got really sweet back packs for the boys (superman and spiderman). I came away with a nice new computer bag and lindsey got a few pictures and decorations for her classroom this year.

Needless to say, everyone came home happy!

Do you ever feel like saying, Stop the Madness? It is a phrase I use when something that seems so easy is made to be difficult. Give me some feedback and if you haven't already sign up to follow my blog.

Jesus, the Twitter King!

Tonight I read the story of Jesus calling the disciples to follow him (Luke 5). In the story he tells peter that he will be a fisher of men and then the bible says they all followed him. That thought just made me stop and think, Jesus is the Twitter King! I know it is a little extreme but the fact is that he followed God the Father unconditionally and called others to follow him. Isn't that what twitter or any other sort of social media is all about.

If you tweet or use twitter you know of a tool that makes it much easier, called tweet deck. Tweet deck organizes your tweets and helps you see when things are directly to you, you are mentioned by another, and the entire river of thoughts from those you are following. God has given us a tweet deck to house our relationship with him called spiritual discipline. I think the categories on this deck would be personal prayer, bible study and healthy relationships.

• Personal Prayer- Who are you Following? It you never hear from the one you are so called "following" are you really following them?
• Bible Study- The river of information that gives us direction and gives us a foundation in which to stand on.
• Healthy Relationships- God uses people to give Direct Messages to you!

How does your Tweet Deck look? Keep your eye on these categories!

Great Teams Lose?

Why do great teams lose? Have you ever thought about that? If teams are so great, why do we need wins and losses? Shouldn't great teams win all the time? I ask this question because my favorite team can beat the good teams but struggles with others. Is it momentum, passion, the challenge or what?

I would love to hear your thoughts.

The Day I Met My Hero!

Wow, this past weekend was one of the most incredible few days of my life! On Saturday I watched my childhood hero (Ruben Sierra) get inducted into the Texas Rangers Hall of Fame. While that may not mean much to you, it means the world to me. For me during a rough childhood Ruben ,along with the Rangers, gave me a sense of hope. Baseball was always my outlet to dream and laid a foundation of a never quit attitude. I had to have that attitude because my team never seemed to win, lol.

As I listened to Ruben give his speech, I sensed such humility, thankfulness, and pride. While he was speaking I realized how emotional this event was for me. I drifted back to my early childhood and remembered the hard times. Times of defeat, of feeling there really wasn't much to live for. But through it all God was faithful.

On the drive home I contemplated all these thoughts and tried to focus on the talk I was to give about my childhood the next morning at church. I was going to share with NORTHchurch, give them a taste of where I have been and the heroes that helped pull me through everything.

There have been a lot of people have impact on my life, but three really stood out to me. Roy, guy that took me to church when no one else would, Uncle Phil, taught me to dream and is responsible for my love of baseball, and my dad and step mom, who gave me an example of normal life and rising above adversity.

Little did I know, my hero Roy, who I hadn't seen in over 20yrs was actually Rod. And Rod was sitting in church when I began to share my story on Sunday morning. When it was brought to my attention, I was overwhelmed. I was given the opportunity to say thank you! I met my long lost hero.

This weekend was a great reminder of who I am and where I have come from. God is amazing!

Question: Who is your hero? What does it mean to be a hero?